There’s always that great excitement that comes with the early stages of falling in love. The giddiness, the little surprises, the butterflies.

But what about when it all gets a little intense, a little too soon. Maybe the person you’re seeing immediately jumps ahead to thinks like marriage or moving in.

We recently got this message in from a listener:

Hey lads, I'm looking for some advice. I've been seeing this fella for about two months now. He's lovely, I really like him but I find him a bit intense. Like, he's already saying things like 'when we move in' or 'when we're married'. He's going mad with Valentines Day plans and he's always buying me presents, and flowers and stuff. I know I sound like I'm being really cold, but it kind of makes me suspicious. What do you guys think? Thanks a mill!

To offer some advice, Louize Carroll from Prism Therapy Online joined Dermot and Dave for a Mind Yourself Now special.

You can catch Louize’s tips by clicking play above